Qing
- Oct 11, 2020
- 7 min
Coming out is a privilege.
It has been a little over a year ago that I came out to my parents. I didn’t really know how to go about it or if I really needed to in...
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Qing
- Sep 24, 2020
- 7 min
Is it safe for me to date white women?
I remember waking up next to this white woman I had spent the night with, we always had a lot of fun and the sex was good. There was a...
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Qing
- Aug 24, 2020
- 4 min
Being a soft masculine-presenting Black woman on the dating scene
Yeah, I’ve been on dates…many..many dates and I have had different experiences. I used various lesbian dating apps to get in contact with...
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Qing
- Jul 30, 2020
- 3 min
Identifying as a Soft Stud is a Radical Act.
As I mentioned in my previous blog: The Identity of Self I touched upon how the society teaches Black women how to behave and how they...
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Qing
- Jul 15, 2020
- 3 min
The Identity of Self
I have always been a person who dived into books when I had a question about myself or my surroundings. When I found out I was Gay (the...
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Qing
- Jul 1, 2020
- 4 min
Finding yourself on Social Media.
I was always a tomboy growing up. Yet, through society and unconsciously because I was hanging out with my femme friends, I felt that I...
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Qing
- Jul 1, 2020
- 3 min
Falling in love with yourself
I was never really into guys. Some I thought were quite good looking, I had a crush on this guy when I was about 11. I remember I liked...
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